Thanks for this, Clementine. All your writing on the challenges of polyamory has been really validating and resonated a lot, but it's an important reminder that there are, of course, reasons that you choose to do it anyway, AND that it gets better. I'm currently feeling a bit stuck, as my partner and I only achieved secure attachment aft…
Thanks for this, Clementine. All your writing on the challenges of polyamory has been really validating and resonated a lot, but it's an important reminder that there are, of course, reasons that you choose to do it anyway, AND that it gets better. I'm currently feeling a bit stuck, as my partner and I only achieved secure attachment after they went through a breakup, and they haven't dated anyone in the two years since. I'm nervous that when they start dating someone, I'll fall apart. I'm looking forward to part two and any advice you have on navigating big relationship shifts.
Thanks for this, Clementine. All your writing on the challenges of polyamory has been really validating and resonated a lot, but it's an important reminder that there are, of course, reasons that you choose to do it anyway, AND that it gets better. I'm currently feeling a bit stuck, as my partner and I only achieved secure attachment after they went through a breakup, and they haven't dated anyone in the two years since. I'm nervous that when they start dating someone, I'll fall apart. I'm looking forward to part two and any advice you have on navigating big relationship shifts.