What's happening to you isn't happening

Or if it is it's not that bad. Or if it is you probably deserve it.

What's happening to you isn't happening. 

Or if it is it's not that bad. 

Or if it is you probably deserve it.

I am really familiar with the logic of abuse. I grew up in a family where sexual abuse was normalized. In my early twenties I was in an abusive relationship in which I regularly experienced degradation and physical violence. 

Abuse takes place in a…